Personally I have been studying how to talk and listen to women for the last 12 years. I wanted to be able to communicate with women, especially my wife and daughter. I had no idea how different it really was. I have also been working on emotions and feelings, since that is what most women use. It was really an eye opener. I can watch a movie now that I have seen in the past and understand so much more about what is going on. Sometimes it is like I missed half of what it was really about.

I think some women also have a problem not being able to understand how men don't have to think about things. If a guy asks you what color your walls are you can say white and he is happy. If a woman asks, you better answer coconut creme delight or know the number of the color and brand. The guy looks and sees a white wall. A woman may see a stand of coconut trees, smell the ocean breeze and feels the warmth of the sun.

I look at the world from two sides now and really enjoy it. I am still learning.