I have a good friend of mine that is a clutterer. I don't mean trash knee deep. But the place is a disaster in my estimation. There is stuff on every step leading up to their 2nd floor apartment. An extra bed room is just full of stuff with no rhyme or reason. The kitchen table doesn't have one square inch that isn't covered. There is stuff everywhere.

I am at a loss as to what to do. I know that there has to be mental/emotional issues that are the cause of this behavior. I think that they are in denial about it.

I ordered a couple books on cluttering. Not sure if that is the right thing to do. I know that I could never be anything but a friend to this person because the cluttering drives me out of my mind.

Thoughts? Suggestions?