What a great e-mail! I like how you figure things out as you go along. I do the same when I journal.

I know how you feel about having to reparent yourself. It is just NOT fair! We should have gotten that when we were little. I'm still unsure about how to do this. Some of your suggestions sound good. Sometimes I let my littles cry, or color, or play with my own kids.

Your post sounded so familiar to me that I just had to respond. You are not alone in your needs, your sadness, your desire for t, or your confusion.

Take good care of you and your littles!
HUGS!