and how old is he? I was married to one that wouldn't work too but we were very very young. I will not take care of a man that will not work. I refuse. my husband was out of work for 3 months recently. thank goodness he finally started one yesterday even if it isn't what he would like as a job at least it will put money into the home again. whew! I feel your pain hon. I agree put a block on the pay for view.