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Old Oct 20, 2009, 12:10 PM
Emily_Strange Emily_Strange is offline
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Originally Posted by miray View Post
I went on a date last night with this very nice, well mannered, great father, financially stable, even tempered, down to earth guy who is very interested in me and wants to go out again. So what's the problem?? Two issues, his divorce will be final Tuesday and I felt no chemistry. His soon to be ex wife is living with her boyfriend, so it's not that I think they'll get back together, but after 12 years of marriage they only separated 3 months ago and he talked a lot about it. I really don't think he is over it. Another, there didn't seem to be any chemistry at all there for me. I have really been trying to improve on my issues and one of those issues is trying to quit dating the same "type of man". He is definitely not the same type of man I typically date. So...do I go on another date and then decide, or do I just tell him I'm sorry, but not interested?
Mmmm the main problem is chemistry. You can find someone who's just as stable and also have chemistry. That chemistry means something, don't ignore it! Don't settle for less!

Besides, he probably needs more time from his divorce before he has anything serious, ESPECIALLY if he talked about the divorce a lot on your date. That's a huuuuuge dating faux pas on his part.
Thanks for this!
miray