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I dont want to become dependent on her. And in some way, I enjoy this period of the relationship where I am not terrbily dependent on her but I like her. I feel freer- if that makes any sense. It is also something I also struggle with when I am attached to a t. I can feel abandoned/rejected at a small remark or attitude that wasnt even intended that way.
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This is basically what I'm feeling towards my T. I like him. He's a nice guy. And I enjoy being in his company. I am comfortable with him like that, and feel that we kinda look at things the same way. Having an outside person to talk to about issues is refreshing. And I feel better afterwards. But I can feel myself getting attached to him. I know that once I do I will take things personally. My feelings will get hurt. And I know it won't be on purpose. But I get that way. And I know that this is a discussion I need to have with him ahead of time. Otherwise he'll probably be wondering what the hell is the matter with her?? LOL