Oh also T had done something that someone has never done before for me. She has a giant sunflower growing in her front garden and I told her how they freak me out, this was sort of said in a light hearted tone, but she asked me why I dont like them? and I said because I feel they are wartching me.

The next session when I arrived it was gone and as she opened the door to greet me I smiled and pointed to the newly raked earth and said, "its gone" she smiled back and said "yes".

That like wow'ed me out that she must have thought about me and decided to do it.