sunny, i am so glad your situation with t is all straightened out. it's wonderful to hear he didn't really lie to you after all. and good for you for confronting him anyway. you are growing! me too, your conflict-avoidant friend. how awful that t was in bandages. it sounds like it was a serious accident but i'm glad to hear he is ok. isn't it funny that we can care about your t when we've never even met you?