I have found it very comforting when my therapist has responded to my questions as another human being. I have had difficulting understanding that people exist outside my sphere of sight. They just kinda disappear only to reappear when I am around. Yeah, I am stunted at a very low age level. Ha ha. Anyway as my T and I were working with this difficulty I would need him to tell me stuff about him to "prove" that he existed beyond me also that I existed beyond him. For a short period of time I was afraid that if I was away from him I actually disappeared. Weird huh? Of course there is a limit to how much a T should share before it is corrupting the therapist/client relationship. He is very good at making sure that his responses are simple and nat at all private.
Zen
PS the most nauseating thing that happens to me is when I am driving and I look at another driver in another car and realize that they are going some where and are going to be doing something that I will never know about. It actually makes me sick to my stomach the image is so powerful and frightening.
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The path is narrow to the right madness. Be wary of trembling in the wrong places! The demons often disguise themselves as gods. And vice versa.--Sam Keen
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