Sunrise- You and your t sound like you have the most beautiful kind of connection. A real love and caring for one another. I am in awe of this. I am in awe of the process that the two of you go through to reach this place of greater understanding. The give and take and honesty.

I am so touched by the genuine empathy you had for him and that he was able to tell you why he was making light of his accident at that moment. He sounds like a very special person and so are you.

I read your post last night and could not reply. I was thinking about a lot of things and one of them was your relationship with your t. The comfort, caring,trust and genuiness that you have with each other is something I want in my life. I dont think I have ever had that kind caring. Or connection. With anyone. When I read this, I felt like I was reading a fairytale. A make-believe story of what love looks like. But it is real and that makes me sad, because I think it is for other people but not for me. I cant have this, no matter how much I want to. Wanting it isnt enough. Sigh....Thank you so much for this post, it gives me some hope that love isnt just for fairytales......