Thank you all! I hear everything you are saying and will take it all into consideration. My first instint, of course, is to tell her what a horrible person she was to me but I know that now is not the right time. And IF there ever is a right time then I will know the words to say and have the balls enough to say it! And right now my main problem IS my husband. His jealousy is absolutely driving me insane! I am trying so hard to control myself and not lose it on him. He is really making it difficult for me to even look at him or talk to him on the phone. He made an appointment with a counselor in IL., where he is, and I'm hoping that talking to someone will help him. If not then I really don't see much hope for us and our future. Again, thanks to you all.