That's kind of the way life and relationships are in general, don't you think? Well, perhaps minus the dependency...

There is always joy to be found in loving someone even when the relationship has to end. Love is a gift we give to ourselves as well. It's about enjoying the special moments life has to offer us now. I still feel very strongly attached to former T despite not having had a session with him since last December. He's in my heart to stay.

For me, therapy truly ended up being about discovering my capacity to love...which is not at all what I went there for. I got so much more out of it than I ever intended to.