Thanks for your advice. Red flags, yes. I agree. But green ones as well. That's the problem. Given his behavior, I am not seeing him as a potential date right now but I am not sure if I should give up the idea completely. I am not very optimistic though.
It is just hard to decide whether it's a waste of time or just a long and difficult road. We have both been single for 6 years. So actually I am choosy.
Yes, he is unstable and erratic. I am trying to decide if I should give up entirely right now or give him a last grace period to think about everything without me being around. It is hard to think clearly. I have just given up a well paid job and moved back to France. Many changes and much confusion.