Dear Yoda,

I know what a problem it can be to clean up and cook during family visits, so I know you will be partially relieved if your Dad doesn't come. That usually comes with mixed emotions. Perhaps you Dad lied because "white lies" have become somewhat habitual to put himself in a better light in the eyes of someone he loves. Perhaps he thinks you would think less of him if you knew he wasn't working, for some reason, even though nothing may be further from the truth. Perhaps he doesn't even know why. I know you have probably forgiven your Dad. It's the only thing to do, for your own peace of mind, not his. These things all pass. Blessings On You ~ billieJ