Sorry I have been away from the computer. All of you have given me a lot to think about.
Pat, I ask about Those things do to some reading I have been doing. One article made it seem as if woman would not get involved with a man then felt was not up to their standards as far as income and social class. Education also seems to be play a part here. again from what i have read a great many woman will not get in a relationship with someone who is not as educated as they are. Yet men would and do, form relationships with woman that are from a lower social economic background.
Now like most things in life this is not always true. There are always exceptions out there.
Now on the other hand you have woman , writing to and dating Not sure if visting in prision would be Dateing and getting married to men who are in Prison . Some are in for life. This is all just so confusing.