Hi! I was diagnosed with ADD a few years ago and have been slowly coming to terms with it. I also suffer from some anxiety and in the past went through a bout of depression. I now understand that the anxiety and depression were tied to the ADD. Prior to me being diagnosed, my oldest son was diagnosed with ADD and Aspergers, although sometimes I question the Asperger diagnosis. Recently my 2nd son was diagnosed with ADD and now I know that my husband has it also, although he's never been formally diagnosed. He's gone to therapy with me exactly twice and my therapist really feels he needs seperate sessions to work on his issues before we can work on the marriage. He's very busy with work and can't seem to get himself "out from under" long enough to see that he NEEDS to get help. Our marriage has suffered greatly from all of this and I can't seem to get him to understand this. He can't think about anything else but his job and I understand now that it's not that he doesn't want to, but that he just CAN'T! He doesn't know how! I'm not quite sure what I'm looking for with this post but it just feels good to vent it out - I'm not sure how much longer I can hang on to everything. He is away on business right now and I feel so much less stress! He normally works from home so I get a full dose of him on a daily basis. The problem is that I am working very hard on myself so it's hard to help him. I feel like we are both hanging on by a thread and neither one of us can do anything for the other. Sorry for this long post, I'll stop now - lol!