Glad to hear you are persevering, Tizzy and Otter:
H never went to therapy since brain inury and won't.
They didn't follow-up with him (back in those days), nor him with them. It's been on our own, with best kids and super T and our belief and some compassionate folk that we've made it thus far.
Have filled about 25 journals now just couldn't bring any part of me to journal 'this event' before now...just too devastating, but obviously not, cause here this post is. It's like one of those journal revelations.
The otterone, the body cannot handle meds but at times have used them when things have been off the screen, which this time came so close. Glad you brought up the 'too much' of journal writing too. That is why there hasn't been one for awhile. Takes friends who 'get it' sometimes to kick back and do it. It's time to start again.
There is a twist to our story. He lives at his house and not here, so every bit of interaction is magnified to months and denial can last alot longer. It's just how it is. There is nothing to hate about it but it is different.
The blame almost goes away with writing about it here, for you too?
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Originally Posted by tizzylizzy
I know journaling is not fun, but it helps get your feeling out, and helps figure out how you can express your feelings to your main partner. Atleast it does to me. I hope it helps you. My hubby is physically disabled and I am mentally disabled. So it is kinda hard on both of us. So I have got to learn to deal with this, and on the fair side so does he. Which we are both trying to do very hard. I hope journaling works out for you like it does me, and I hope that it helps with your communication. I wish you the best, tizzy
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Take care
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H.