Thank you, phoenix. Ya know, I am proud! I feel like I resolved this like an adult. I did not (figuratively) cower in a corner like a little girl and worry he was going to yell at me if I brought up this topic and decide instead to keep quiet. I did not do that! I was an adult. He was an adult. It was totally cool.

I would say you were more than just an adult... In this exchange you seemed like a self-actualized adult. Moving along on those psychosocial development stages covered in psy 101.