baby, you didn't activate a thing....I truly believe that there are some ppl who can only relate to the opposite sex by "playing games"...i.e. paying attention...then drawing away.....Do Youself A Favor....Let This One Go;...He's no different w/any woman..and probably "feeds" on the ego satisfaction of "stringing you around".....You're way too honest and straightforward to be dealing w/this type of personality......(& if he makes advances again, Tell Him To "bring it back when he grows up").....Love Grace