i agree with Grace.......you know the answer, or you would not have asked us......i'd be most upset, even with myself, if i or my significant other (which i do not have now) e.mailed an old flame, (or anyone of the other sex) daily........it's gratification for you and makes you feel 'womanly'. you can be womanly without something that you have to run by us. it's gratification for him and how do you
REALLY know that it's okay with his wife and that she is in touch with all of her old flames? think about it, sister dear, think about it.........xoxoxo yours in middle-aged single hood. pat