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Originally Posted by Elysium3006
Honestly....
I don't know what's really going on here....and neither do you it sounds like, but.....
It takes two to tango!!!
It is obvious that this BF/Fiancee of yours is still hung up on this woman, and there is already a child involved and one on the way. This woman isn't his EX anything...as they are still legally married, although separated.
If he truly cared and was ready/mature enough to be in a committed relationship, he would handle his business and get things squared away. As it stands, he's not even let go or moved on from the previous Mother of his child....and now he's attempting to get another one.
It's your choice really. Hang in there and wait and see if he's going to grow up and take care of his crap, or put your relationship on hold until he proves that he is mature enough to be a husband and a father.
I hate to say it....but right now, you're just another baby momma!! And how many of those does one person really need?
Best wishes...and keep us posted!! 
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Thank you.
Since then, I told him we needed to chill for awhile, and slow down, and maybe some day down the road things will be better for both of us. He still wants to see me, and have me help with the divorce papers...
Right now i'm so exahausted though..
Anyways, thanks ^_^