((((((1000)))))) You know, I remember thinking the same thing as him, and my husband said "How dare you tell me what's best for me! Have you ever thought I don't want anyone else? I am an adult and can choose for myself, and I choose you."A litle authroitarian, perhaps, but it did start to make inroads into my sick little brain. Took some time, but it helped keep me around. Strength dear. If you need to talk, we are here