- i did manage to ask him to promise that he would call me if he decides he hates me. i said it very quickly though when the session was over and we were heading out the door. i didnt want to talk about whys/wherefores etc. i told him it had to be a phone call, or a voicemail or something, and not a letter otherwise i would worry that the letter got lost in the post. he did promise, but i think he found it amusing, so i'm worried he didnt take it seriously. but he said it's an easy promise to make and keep because it's never going to happen and i can't get rid of him that easily. i'm not sure, but i think i'll be ok until next week at least.