hi Barbi, welcome to PC

i think that there is still some unresolved conflict in your relationship with your friend.. are you able to have full, open, and honest discussion with her? its good that you stated your boundaries with her for a start and now the friendship lingers, torn around the edges just a bit.. you can make an intelligent and healthy decision to 'grow' the relationship from here, by remaining honest with her, or, you can choose that now is not the time to do so, because either you, or herself is simply not ready for such a challenge... praying for you that all works out for the best... be true to yourself and honest with yourself... its hard to leave matters in a disconnected and unhealed state... you can resolve this issue in your own mind without ever saying a thing to her but that might leave her confused and in a dark place... i know its hard, just do your best, no one can ask for more