I am I guess different than everyone else and though it is by the rules ...wrong.....and I would not like it done to me..I would do it if I felt that special bond..and would with someone I care about now..if he were to write me..heck I would do more than write...maybe it;s wrong but so is smoking, and fueling the car on ozone days and so many things...I say do it if it makes you feel good....Maybe someday it will be more maybe not. There is an old play called Love Letters...old and its kind of like this and also Bridges of Madison County..had she not BEEN with Clint Eastwood she never would have had a days happiness and been able to hang in with her family all those years...he was her heart...But again I am different than most people