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Old Oct 23, 2009, 12:33 PM
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so - is it a transitory or incidental thing? or once you have a transference experience toward a certain person, it will likely keep on happening?
I think it can be either or both transitory and incidental, depending on the deepness involved. And I don't think it has to keep on happening, though it may.

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and if it occurs in therapy, is it to be encouraged, discouraged, passed over, worked with - and if worked with, how?
Definitely should be worked with and understood, in my opinion. These reactions are full of information about us, I think.