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if I had a male t, the transference would be out of control for me. I dont think I could handle my feelings and Id have to have a pretty tolerant and understanding t. As far as ftt is concerned, I dont have these attached feelings. And somehow, I think there is a reason for it that I dont yet know. I keep my distance? But I feel safe. I am holding back? But Im delving into things. Maybe Im over thinking the relationship. But if it were a male t, Id be attached from the very first nice thing he said to me. There is something to be looked at there, not sure what.
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BlueMoon, if you ever find out why this happens to you, please let me know. You know I'd be the same way. I overreact when someone is nice to me. My Ts commented on that, but I forgot what they said it meant. My first T said I sexualize feelings; does that apply? I know I told you that I would be afraid to see a male T. It's hard enough to control the feelings with a female; I just feel TOO MUCH for my Ts.
This is a really good thread: I'm just reading it now, and see that a lot applies to me too.