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Originally Posted by Hunny
BlueMoon,Dealing with trauma (memories & body) in session, here too, this past week.  Really needed the quiet time at the end of the session. Always so very essential. Calms.
Almost all of the time it happens where there is a lapse of a day or so after the therapy session and this time was no different. Then, there is a crash of sorts, crying or tremendous sleepiness and other things. Then a day or so later, um, it's kind of like the intensity didn't happen. But somewhere inside there is a knowing. There is often an unfolding or internal restructuring after this too. This time was particularly intense b/c of the particular trauma and I guess I missed my old t who helped me before through these tragedies but it was okay b/c he is still pretty close by and the new t is really nice. It's complex within, so all of this takes time. I was delayed receiving help due to life circumstances and an abusive psychologist.
Thanks for asking and I hope you and I can be little brave souls to finish up working through these past events.
Sorry, I feel so not-nuturing, just so protective of self just now.
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((((Hunny))) Im so sorry you had such a hard week.

What you describe is exactly what happened to me. A meltdown after some processing and then days after where it was as if there was no meltdown.
And, I also missed my old t. But Im sure for different reasons.
I also hope you and I can be brave souls and do this work. I feel like its going to take such a long time...sigh....I can only do small amounts at a time. And, actually, I didnt really even do a lot in my last session.