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Old Oct 23, 2009, 06:54 PM
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Originally Posted by turquoisesea View Post
For what it's worth I don't think you "are in trouble". I just think you're confused about what happened.
I agree with you here

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If for any reason you and your T decide there is a possibility of a relationship I would advise finding another T while this relationship takes place


Honestly, if her T is an ethical... this should not even be a possibility. I do not think a healthy initimate relationship can come from a situation like this!

Bridgett, if your T does not come out and firmly say that the relationship between the two of your cannot become initimate or if she even hints that an other than professional relationship can develop between the two of you...I would head for the hills-whether you want to or not.
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