(((((((((((bridgett)))))))))))))

What your T did is absolutely NOT okay. There are definitely situations where hugging/touch is fine in therapy (I have hugs and touch in my therapy), but kissing on the lips is crossing a boundary into something sexual.

YOU are not in trouble, and the fact that you did that is totally, totally fine. It is not up to you to keep track of the boundaries in the relationship. Even though you can't have that kind of relationship with someone who is your T, you are the client, you were caught up in the moment, and that's how you responded.

But I have read that even if a client comes in and takes off all of her clothes and throws herself at her therapist, the THERAPIST is 100% responsible for maintaining boundaries and ensuring that NOTHING happens between the therapist and the client.

I agree with chaotic...what happened needs to be talked about in great length with T. And after that?? I'm not sure.

I'm sorry you are in such a confusing situation.