yes some alt will only come forward just a little each time. just to test the water so to speak. but you do the very same thing I do. I stop and ask my self who is time sharing with me and that it is okey to come forward but please share with me in hopeful a non public place this is where journaling may help. we tellthem tha tit is okey to be angry and that we all feel angry at what happened to us and as to the alt that contacted the man do you like him to. if so you may have found someone ya'll will like. Just tell her to let you know next time.