i don't go to a group but the term "are you thinking of hurting yourself?" especially when i am in a dark place always kind of makes me chuckle...like what...like bang my head against a wall? hold my breath until i turn blue ? it's like you are afraid to ask the hard question. come on say the words.

maybe its just me...and this happened just today ...oops yesterday...its after midnight....but t was getnly tiptoeing around the issue when she knew damn straight there was just cause. finally she came out with the just thoughts or plan and method questions. THANK YOU!

i was there to talk about it, wanted to talk about but sometimes bravery isn't all that brave if you know what i mean...sometimes it needs a gentle shove in the back....not to waste time pussyfooting around.

usually if i'm in trouble and with t i'll balk and drag my feet but usually she'll get me to talk about it.

i get confused reading the posts sometimes...does SI mean self injury or suicidal idealation...different things to different folks. some can't write out either one...me i don't have that problem...my issues are just dyslexia, poor spelling and the chronic misplacement of my glasses.