I still say that in this case...it's not so much about who you are....but WHAT you expect.....(or need).....by all means, do whatever you feel you can handle...but I sense that you're expecting something..(and I kinda think that the judge is expecting something too)...and I don't think that the end result will be fruitful for either of you.....But that's just my opinion....and like arseholes...everyone has one......lol.....grace