Sorry hon I only just saw your reply ... thank you so much for your insightfulness I'm not afraid of labels at all, I'm one of those people who need it I think .. if not only for the sake of explaining to others! You know how people can be

I value your opinion, I bellieve you are right too. I know that I will never forget what happened to me, nor will I forgive, but I am well on the way to healing thanks to my wonderful therapist. I have to say she is probably the only person who validated what happened to me and how traumatic it was growing up .... that in itself was a huge sigh of relief to me ... after years of people not believing etc ... gosh I'm going off topic lol sorry.

Anyway, I hear what you are saying, you sound like a wonderful and positive person, thank you for reading my posts and for the hugs, right backatya hon, Ophelia xxxx