I wish we could move away so badly.
My brother is a psychological case worker. He lives about 3 hours away. He said he will never come back here to live. He knows how it is. All the women in the family are very nosey and bossy. You are to groom your image to their standards.
Yet, no matter what you do you never reach it...the point of acceptance.
Nothing is ever good enough but they want to know everything so they can tell you what you should be doing.