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Old Oct 24, 2009, 12:38 PM
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When I had my last T she said that she wanted me to bring up with her anything she did that bothered me. Usually it was my distorted cognitions that went wild, but sometimes not. She said that whenever this happened (which luckily wasn't often) that it helped her to become a better T. For one when we discussed it it allowed her to see how I interpenetrated what she had said or done, giving her insight into our relationship, but it also made sure that she didn't do it again. I was always scared about bringing things up, but she was really supportive any time I did. I think that is what made my work with her one of the best that that I had done becuase I knew (even if I was scared) that I could bring anything up with her.