one.....you need to quit the marijuana. you smoke outside, to protect your baby from second hand smoke..what if something really big happened and your reflexes were slow and you couldn't do what you needed to do, to protect him? i've smoked pot, so i know about reflexes.

two.....pot is a depressant. why are you using it? you're hurting yourself and your wife. you have no job and you're buying pot?

three...you're bipolar. are you on meds? you really need to see a pdoc and get on meds, if you aren't on on them.

four...keep trying to get a job, it will do wonders for your feelings about yourself.

five..you said your child doesn't pay attention when you say no, do you play with him? playing is a better interaction, than saying no. take him for walks, carry him on your shoulders (not stoned).....do things for him and your wife......feel useful. it really helps us........

six...i know i'm blunt, but sounds like you're in a hole and i am just trying to help you dig out........xoxo pat