thunderbear

Did you choose this therapist? It sounds like you may not be totally comfortable with a male T.

Remember that you are in control. Just because your T asks you a question doesn't mean you have to answer it if you're not ready or if you feel uncomfortable. It's great that your new T wants to know more details to help you more, but don't feel pressured to provide any details yet that you don't want to discuss - take it at your own pace. And if you want to be totally honest with T, simply tell him that you're not yet comfortable enough to talk about a certain subject - then maybe you and T can discuss what might make you more comfortable. Good luck!