My old best friend of 23 years came back into my life via a phone call after us having been distant from each other for six years and now my main alter is all over the map with anger & frustration (cursing included) - I feel lost, as I would love to have her back in my life due to the fact that she was the one person I could always count on with no judging or hate involved, never... and yet I find her present disposition the same as it has been for the last 12 years (depressed, angry, complaining - blaming) and that to me is not some thing I (we) can live with on a daily or even weekly basis........ 
WHY TO DO? ? ? ? ? ? ? ? ?