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Oct 25, 2009, 03:27 PM
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Member Since: Mar 2009
Location: So Cal
Posts: 3,342
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Hey Rhapsody!! 
Long time no talk!! 
I agree with VPowers. If your alters will allow an internal meeting, see how they all feel about this. Maybe there are certain alters you have that would be able to maintain healthy boundaries with this person, if you wanted a relationship with her, and they could volunteer to be the ones "out" while you are talking/visiting with her. Maybe you will find out that none of you will benefit from having a relationship with this person at this time.
I can personally empathize with you. I have a long time friend that parts of us would love to get back with. But this person does not really recognize even the host as her own person and attempts to tell us who we are and how to be. We have had to pull back from this relationship and we have felt better keeping strict boundaries.
We're here for you!!
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