HI there. Thanks for all the feedback. Several things have happened since my last post. First, I have seen an attorney and filed for divorce and I've moved out.
I had an interesting 2 days since then with the lady in question. I stopped by her house (invited) for a few drinks. I've moved fairly close to her house and she wanted to show me some things. At nightfall, she loaded a small ice chest with a few beers and she took me to a spot she used to go to when a young woman. I drove her, in her sports car, top down, and we arrived at a little parking lot in the hills a few miles from her house.
We took two beers and walked about 3/4 of a mile up the trail. We sat and looked at the lovely view of the city lights and talked about my meeting with my lawyer. After a while, we decided to go get something to eat. We walked back to her car, had another beer and talked some more. We got something to eat then went back to her house and drank and talked 'til about 2 AM. This girl (she's 54) is so easy to talk with. Anyway I spent the night, in a separate bedroom. Pretty dull eh?
Here's where I need help. In the morning, we were drinking coffee on her patio and talking about pretty personal and intimate things. She was still in her pajamas. While she was talking, she was running her fingers through hair and looking me right in the eye. Our patio chairs were facing directly at each other. She was sitting facing me with her feet on the seat of her chair with her genital area facing me directly. Of course she had her pajama bottoms on and was not really exposed.
I tried hard not to look but I'm sure I took a few glances at her crotch and when I looked back at her face are eyes met and she was smiling as she continued to talk. She made no attempt to put her feet down or to close her legs.
What I'd like to know from the ladies is she just very comfortable around me or is there something I don't understand about this kind of body language and should it mean anything to me?...HELP?