Wish i could answer your question but i think that is only a question he can answer. Since you and him are friends that be a situation you can discuss. It seems the with benefits part of the friends with benefits in the very least causes confusion for one or both parties...in the very most it can ruin a friendship. I guess i just do not understand the whole concept of friends with benefits as an emotionally healthy thing. What ever happened to just dating? Wish i had a more positive answer for you. If he does like you more than a friend and you do not like him more than a friend...well...i just do not see who benefits at all. Good luck with this.