Can you convince him to go to marriage counseling? I know you don't want to give up on your marriage. I think that makes you a strong and courageous woman. However, Bethy, you can't save a marriage all by yourself. He has to be willing to put in some effort and accept some responsibility himself. It takes two to tango (so to speak).

Yell if you ever need to talk. I'll help you however I can.

((((((((((Beth))))))))))