I used to have a friend like that. He never did get his head on straight as far as relationships are concerned. It was hard since we had the same friends. The thing is we were engaged when we broke up. I had to rearrange my life when the relationship ended. We were going to be living in another state where he was stationed, so I had enrolled in college there. Thankfully the local college honored the my scholarship and accepted me at the last minute. That was over 24 years ago. I moved on and when he decided he was ready I was already in another relationship. I have been married now for 23 years to the man I met in college. I know it hurts now. Time does heal all wounds.
|