Thread: Feeling guilty!
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Old Oct 26, 2009, 03:07 PM
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((((((((Elysium)))))))) You are not the worst person ever. You are simply a regular human being. I often think I can do things that I then find out is causing me mental health stress. You inconvenienced this person by your move in and out so fast. But this is not something you did intentionally and if she rents rooms regularly I would think she has run into this before. She shouldn't be laying a big guilt trip on you. If she is, do NOT let her. She is wrong.

It's understandable for her to be a bit irritable, but that's it. And there is nothing you can do about how she CHOOSES to feel or deal with it. You need to do what is right for you and try hard not feel guilty about it. You miscalculated. That's not a big deal. Take care of yourself and please let us know how you are getting through this time.
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I'd rather have a visit, note or pretty picture
than an "I'll say a prayer" or a "god bless you."
Doesn't make me feel better, no meaning to me for sure.
Can't stop you from praying and blessing me,
and if that makes you feel better feel free.
But keep it to yourself please, don't tell me.
And let's all respect each other's feelings.
With kindness, support and "sweet dreamings."