((((((((Sabby)))))))))

Thanks for your kind words.... and yes, my parents are separated. Have been now for about four years. Also, I don't believe she necessarily called me to tell me that (she also was ragging on my dad...), but it came up. It was very much like her... quite passive-aggressive and non-chalent. It just frustrates me because her and I had a huge fight over this issue 4 years ago, and now she's bringing it up like it never happened. Though I guess that has been a trend in our relationship... ugh. Sorry, I'm side-tracked atm.
Thanks again for the hugs. Very much needed/appreciated