(((((((salukigirl)))))))))

Wow your situation sounds tricky too I just don't understand how people can justify cheating when it is more than them invested in the relationship.

As for the projecting anger bit.. truthfully, I'm way more angry with her than him. Not because I don't think he did any wrong (clearly he did if he helped a married woman be unfaithful to her husband), but because a) he really means nothing to me, and b) because my mom has a history of doing things like this... our relationship was long lost since this happened in the first place.

's to you