Really complicated and what is even more disturbing that no one is at fault here. Seems like everyone wants to take care of others but may be in his own way. You must believe and make others believe that you love and care for each other, it is just communication barrier. You must talk more with your parents, listen to their concerns and share your plans. But do not expect change to happen overnight. Patience is all you need, trust me, I have improved my relation with my moter very much and she is one of the few best friends I have, my relation with my father is okay but moves on like sine alpha graph, up and down, but I am working on it as well. So try and if you fail, do not be disappointed as it is a matter of loved ones, try again and a drop of water dropping constantly on stone can make a hole in it, and your parents are much much better than a stone! Give it a go!

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ZILCH HOUR