In my house, I am the only creative person. So im always getting into arguments with my mom because I have a messy room, since the rest of the house is neater than a dojo. There aren't even accessories and decorations. Its just furniture and lamps. But I knit, sew, bake, paint, and I do pretty much everything creative. And all of my supplies are in my room along with my personal things. So I have boxes and bags full of stuff so my room looks like a storage room, which is ok with me. At least I know where everything is. But my mom has always insisted I throw my stuff away because it looks disgusting and unladylike. She even tells me men will never want me because im messy and disorganized! And today she stood in front of my room at 7am yelling that if I don't throw my stuff away she's gonna do it for me. She even said she'll go out and buy garbage bags. I don't know what to do. I don't wanna disrespect her, but im close to tears. What did I do to deserve this? I always did what she said. But I can't do this.