Crystalrose it is not selfish to put down boundaries between you and your sister. You both struggle, therefore she must seriously think about seeing a T again and not expect you to bear the brunt of all of her troubles, especially as you struggle yourself. I'm so sorry you are in this situation. You have as much right to peace and healing as your sister. Gently try and tell her this, you must have boundaries, wishing you the best, Ophelia xxx